Senior Stories

College Expectations Vs. Realities

By Max Sheikh

            As high school seniors prepare to put on their caps and gowns, images of college life flood their minds: lively campuses, new independence, and the ability to carve out their educational path. These aspirations, while filled with youthful optimism, frequently face a more difficult reality while entering college. The experiences of Ponte Vedra High School students depict the stark contrast of expectations and realities of college.

Rowan Seese, a senior at PVHS, on the verge of attending the University of Central Florida, is filled with enthusiasm. “Honestly, I can’t wait to just make new friends and have more freedom in my learning,” Seese says, expressing a common expectation. Indicating not just a desire for social expansion, Seese wants to become active in a more self-directed learning environment, implying a big departure from the tight limits of high school education. Ryan Brady, a senior at PVHS, who is about to begin his academic career at Florida Gulf Coast University, has hopes for many social and educational opportunities. “I expect to meet new people every day.” The opportunities to expand out will be limitless,” adds Brady, emphasizing his appreciation for the vast community that college offers. Seniors’ viewpoints express a desire for deeper relationships and a unique academic path that is outwardly difficult to achieve in high school.

The reality of college life frequently paints a complex image. Roberto Lachner, a former Ponte Vedra High School student currently attending Princeton, discusses the surprise academic challenges college may bring. “We get a lot more homework, but we also spend much less time in class unexpectedly,” he notes, emphasizing the change toward a more rigorous self-managed study routine as opposed to the regimented classroom hours of high school. This contrast demonstrates a discrepancy between expected independence and real academic constraints put on students.

“Honestly, I can’t wait to just make new friends and have more freedom in my learning.”

Rowan seese (12)

Ben Wainer’s, a former PVHS student, experience at Florida State University highlights the enormous number of options in college. “You can do almost literally anything you want, which is difficult to wrap your head around without being in [college],” Wainer said. His remark emphasizes the range of liberty, and responsibility, that characterizes the college experience. While independence remains a feature of college life, navigating this overwhelming opportunity in the face of academic responsibilities may be difficult.

The transition from high school to college is a journey of adjusting to new realities while maintaining original goals. Expectations and reality have parallels in the experiences of academic pursuit, personal growth, and making new friends. However, differences occur in the intensity and independence of these experiences. College students soon learn to strike a balance between their goals and the practical realities of college life.

As seen through the eyes of PVHS upcoming grads and alumni, college is filled with diversity and adaptation. The concept of college emphasizes the importance of welcoming both the anticipated and the unexpected, resulting in an experience that is both rewarding and difficult.


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