By Lily Keeley

For many young people, stepping onto a college campus marks the beginning of a new chapter filled with possibility. For Railey Player, a senior at Ponte Vedra High School, that chapter includes something she’s dreamed of for years: joining a sorority.

“The reason I plan to join a sorority is to be surrounded by a community of girls that uplift each other and love one another!” she shares. As she counts down the days to recruitment, Railey has already been “getting ready by getting my resume and recommendations done,” she says, her excitement is growing, and she is looking forward to meeting so many new people.

Sorority recruitment, often called “rush,” is known for its fast-paced, emotional whirlwind of events and conversations. For those like Railey just starting their journey talking to upperclassmen like Emma Jabour offer insight and advice born from experience. Now a sophomore at UF, Emma reflects on how sorority life shaped her college experience in more ways than she expected.

“Being in a sorority has connected me to so many people on campus that have helped me with my classes and getting involved in other clubs,” Emma says. “It has given me a network of likeminded and motivated girls who push me to be my best academically and personally.”

But the process isn’t just about picking a house. It’s about discovering where you truly feel at home.

“There’s so much I’ve learned,” Emma shares. “Going in with an open mind is huge—so many people go in thinking they know what house they want and then end up loving somewhere else during the process.” She also recommends showing as much personality as possible. “Don’t be afraid to be yourself. It will help ensure that you end up in the place that’s the best fit for you.”

Emma offers other practical tips too, like jotting down notes after each house visit to keep track of feelings and conversations. “The days are long, and it helps to remember the connections you made.”

There are also lessons learned the hard way. “I wouldn’t recommend putting too much pressure on yourself to act however you think the sorority will want you to,” she says. “Each house just wants you to be yourself.” She also warns against procrastinating on preparing materials like your resume and Round 1 video. “You have all summer, so take your time and make sure it turns out how you like.”

For Railey, recruitment is more than just a week of events, it’s a hopeful leap into a community where she can thrive. “Being surrounded by girls who love and support one another, that’s what I’m most excited about,” she says.

As recruitment draws near, girls across the country will be navigating this same path, balancing nerves, excitement, and a desire to belong. But if there’s one thing both Railey and Emma could agree on, it’s that being true to yourself is the best way to find your home.

Pictured: the Alpha Delta Pi (ADPi) sorority house at UF